Sadly, I'm feeling a little down and don't really feel like yay-ing about my day, cause to be honest, it wasn't such a great day. I promise, though, I will try my best to change it.
Well, my cousin got married this week. His wedding was the weirdest wedding I've ever attended; and Iv'e been to not so few weddings. Now, before I'll start bitching about this wedding and the many-many things I didn't like about it, let me just say that I don't want to state any country, faith, religion or another shit, cause it's really not about it. I'd like to keep it like "global", you know what I mean? Great.
Right so, a few years back, all my older male cousins (from mom's side of the family) got very religious, like a born again christians. Now, when a person who wasn't very religious turns religious, that person usualy is more EXTREME than others. And radical. Like really. So this wedding was a religious sort of wedding, and which there was specific dress codes, specific rituals and one weirdo of a priest. This cousin and his wife believed they shouldn't touch each other before the wedding. I'm sorry, but this is a shit idea. The original idea is to be pure for the wedding, but, does a hug make you unpure? A hand shake? Please. So yeah, even when he proposed to her, instead of jumping on him and give him a massive hug of joy, they just stared at each over... I'm far from being religious. If it was me, I would give my fiance a big kiss and basically drag him to the closest room and once again express our love physically. In my opinion, not touching each other, at all, is a very stupid idea. What if he's a lousy kisser? What if he's suck in bed? Why would I marry a guy who isn't good for me in bed? Come on, sex is a major part of it. I know, practice makes perfection, but in some cases, it doesn't, so why should I take this risk? Now back to the wedding. When the priest pronounce "You are now Man and Wife! You may kiss the bride :D", you oughta give that special someone the perfect kiss. >> Seems like dear ol' cousin rather hug the priest instead of kissing his wife after he didn't even touch her? You might be a very up-tight religious dude, but come on, bro! Where's your teenager's lust?! >> Sister was right to note that it looked like he was marrying the priest instead of her. Poor girl... She was just standing her, doesn't know what the fuck to do with herself now...
Yeah.... VERY weird....
So what kind of emotions did he have for her to propose to her, if he couldn't even express them? >> I'm pretty sure he didn't tell her "Hun, I love you very much!" or something like that. How can you marry a person who cannot actually express his love for you in matter of words or actions? If they got married just from religious points of view then... I pity them.
I would love to get married someday. My main reason is those fancy white dresses, I simply love it. Also it is a celebration of two people's love. There is a beautiful thing in that very old tradition. I don't want to marry someone cause I HAVE to. I want to get married out of love (as I am a hopeless romantic person). I want to marry a person who I'm deeply sure of him feelings for me and I of my feelings for him.
Though in a way, I am kind of jealous... I want a person in my life. *Sigh*...
And oh yes, I'm feeling down from jealousy, and frustration from studying once again... I just wish this exam to be over already. In one month it will be over. In exactly one month from now, I'll be free ^^. Oh I can't wait. Also causing I'm DYING to play the new Skyrim: The Elder Scrolls game... Cause it looks fucking amazing.
I think I have a raid on WoW soon ^^
Have a great week people! I'll try to be more cheerful next post :)
Darl x
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